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A quality (e.g. gentleness) can be either good or bad

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A quality can be either good or bad e.g. Gentleness has its drawbacks
Normally, people love to be with gentle parents, spouse, friends.
I prefer gentle dentists, gentle paediatricians, gentle teachers.
Gentle people are caring and give you assurance, they do not dominate or intimidate.
However being too gentle may not be good.
For example, in a dining out at a Sunday night in Dec 2012, I gently & politely mentioned to the waitress that they overcharged us for food that we did not order. She insisted they did not make any mistake until my dining companion raised his voice. Sometimes, we have to be assertive or difficult. It takes wisdom to know when we are supposed to be true with our true nature (for me is to be gentle) and when to be tough.


Written by blueroselady

December 17, 2012 at 2:47 pm

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