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Prayer: to and for my love

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ETIQUETTE BETWEEN HUSBANDS + WIVES

Let the rebuke be preceded by a KISS.
Do not require a request to be repeated.
Never should both be angry at the same time.

Never neglect the other, for all the world beside.
Let each strive to always accommodate the other.

Let the angry word be answered only with a kiss.
Bestow your warmest sympathies in each other’s trials.
Make your criticism seldom, and in the most loving manner possible.
Make no display of the sacrifices you make for each other.
Never make a remark calculated to bring ridicule upon the other.

Never deceive; confidence, once lost, can never be wholly regained.
Always use the most GENTLE and LOVING WORDS when addressing each other.
Let each study what pleasure can be bestowed upon the other during the day.

Always leave home with a TENDER GOOD-BYE and LOVING WORDS. They may be the last.
Consult and avise together in all that comes within the experience and sphere of each individuality.
Never reproach the other for an error which was done with a good motive and with the best judgment at the time.

@~@
A WEDDING DAY PRAYER

O God, who has blessed marriage with the holiness
and dignity of a sacraement, grant us as a husband and a wife:

The prudence to recognize and the courage to avoid the folly / foolishness of pettiness, the cruel wounds of unkindness, and the cancer of mistrust.

The maturity to act and react as adults, especially in disagreeable situations.

The patience and generosity in forgiving human weaknesses and failings and in accepting and loving each other as we are, not as we might wish one another to be.

May in-laws, money, drink or religion never be a cause or source of unhappiness.

May the personality of each be blessed with a genuine sense of humour, a complete openness, and a sincere determination to understand each other.

May our love for one another be entirely unselfish, and may we find our greatest happiness in pleasing each other.

And finally, may the fingertips of Christ scatter upon us the rice of a thousand blessings, especially that our home, no matter how lavish or humble, will always be a little suburb of heaven, a place where love reigns and God’s peace abides. Amen.

LIGUORIAN

@~@
Dearest God
Don’t let me go another day without expressing my love to my man.
My man is the biggest gift you gave to me Lord.
He loves his parents, I love my parents too.
Both of us love food and travel, we are very grateful for the wonderful opportunities that you have given us.
Man is INFJ, woman is ENFP,
both of us are idealist and the personality test said we are suitable for one another.

Blueroselady wants so much to have full trust in You Lord and in my man.
That GOD WILL PROVIDE to us.
Please help Blueroselady to be more loving and not chasing worldly things.

My man has taught me many beautiful things in life:
1. It is OK not to be the best in the worldly matters, my man will still love and support Blueroselady.
2. the importance of work life balance.
3. the meaning of family with you Lord.

Please give me courage and eloquence to say exactly what I feel.

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Written by blueroselady

December 24, 2011 at 11:45 pm

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